Be kind to unkind people

Some people don't treat you right . It has nothing to do with you . Its their issue . Let them deal with it. You remain stable .However others behave , you behave well to all . Accept people and situations as they are.Don't ever do favoritism  when you are a leader .


One of  my uncle passed away . He was just 55 years old . Death  can come at any time . So live life well as long as you are here . Do your best to make this world a happier and better place to live . One of my colleague was telling he wants to buy Mercedez Benz car . I told then what . Life is much bigger than that . Some people don't even have 1 day meals . We need to be useful .Know to have a balance between career , friends and family life . Don't just give priority to one . Most of the times , it will be career and rest two are not taken care . Have a balance in life.

Q: How do we handle people who emotionally abuse you?

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar: If it is physical abuse, then you should just stay away from them. But if it is emotional abuse that you are going through, then it is totally your responsibility. No one can emotionally manipulate you if you do not let them manipulate you. It is as simple as that.
If you do not want to be unhappy, no one else can make you unhappy. Just decide for yourself that no matter what happens, I am going to keep my mood and spirit high and I am going to keep smiling. Come what may, I am not going to get bogged down or bow down before anyone else’s tactics. That’s it, finished!

Hope

Beautiful lines below  which I read  somewhere 

In pursuit of dreams..
we hope and pray they come true..
Never stop to dream..Never stop to hope..
Our actions define who we are..
our dreams passion and hope define who we want to be..

Life will always move in the direction of the best

"Beware when making a woman cry. God is counting her tears.” 
― Paulo Coelho, Adultery

Paulo coelho s books have been fun to read . Currently reading the book adultery . Some nice thoughts from the book


Smile  a lot . They say fake it till you make it. Automatically you feel good when you do it 

Start cooking .It makes use of all the senses.

Read stories to your kids or yourself . You learn a lot through stories 

Bath twice a day if possible . Sometimes bathing cleanses your soul as well.

Drink loads of water 

Write down your complaints .This really works for me 

Have a goal in your life 



We are the ones who create the messes in our heads. It does not come from outside.” 
― Paulo Coelho, Adultery

Its important to remove people from our life by whom we create hurt for whatever reasons . These people are called energy vampires or energy drains . Lets recognize them and remove them from our lives.