do we need love

 do we need love in life or can we stay alone , Questions keeps pondering . some messages from discussion with a friend on samantha s remarriage 

I feel ..for whatever reasons ..if it didn’t work out ..n if you find someone who is suitable…it’s okay to get committed…she was so much in love with naga Chaitanya …it was so visible ..but somehow it didn’t work out ..n she has found love again .

Question : So love is not permanent, it can change again in future, if correct condition comes or situation changes

Hmm ..I believe life is like train journey…some people have to get down in different stations ..just coz we enjoy their company ..can’t ask them to stay with us ..for whatever reasons ..they get down when destination comes ..n if you meet someone else in the journey n enjoy their company..feel nothing wrong in it ..this is my view :)

Question : I am trying to understand what is true love?

According to me …doing something for someone without any expectations..though difficult…we do something expecting they ll also do for us someday 

Question :I will circle back, what is true love? Is it always reciprocal? Can't true love be one sided without expecting love in return?

I believe love should give us joy …n sometimes one sided love doesn’t give it …we are social beings ..we need company ..touch etc etc …n for whatever reasons ..one sided love cannot give that ,..ofcourse if you are okay to be without intimacy,..it’s a choice ..may be some saints do it ,,.n if not required..it’s again a choice 

Question:So as per u we can have as a many time love as we want or can get

Ideally one is the best …if you have got the one and able to spend the rest of the life ..then nothing like that .,.but life happens ..sometimes for whatever reasons ..it doesn’t work out or the person is no more …then what next …if you find someone ..whom you feel can match some vibes or can enjoy life s journey..then nothing wrong in loving again ..sometimes even that mite not work ..so we have to keep going …ofcourse there will be pain ..but that’s part of life ..better than staying alone throughout your life ..

Be grateful

 Am I grateful enough today , what did we bring when we were born and what we will take back when we die..

This song depicts it beautifully 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FfWjKLd9GYE

When we start comparing ourselves, we tend to become sad 

To be free from happiness is also art 

Back with a bang

 Posting after a really long time, not sure if anyone gonna read in the world of Chatgpt. Sometimes you are lost, sometimes you find yourself. When I'm lost, I try to do these things 

- Meditate  - Somehow it gives me direction 

- Exercise - It kind of helps 

- Read - Always helps 

- Finally, Write - Definitely helps. 

Keeping it short for now 

Financial Freedom

 What is it to be financially free? For me it is to be debt free and lead a comfortable life

Are we doing anything to be financially free ? Are we investing in stocks or mutual finds which beats inflation or are we just going with the flow 

I did recently course called Money Gym program which is taught by Priyanka Bhatia from Women on wealth . She speaks about how to invest in the right mutual funds etc and how important it is to be financially free . All these things have to be taught in school which somewhere they forget to teach 

More details updated in the link  below 

https://www.facebook.com/WomenOnWealth

Malayalam movies

 Watched the Malayalam movie Kurup in the big screen . Some movies are worth watching in big screen and this was one of it . Loved the acting of everyone . - Dulquer , shine Chacko , Shobhita , they performed really well . 

It was negative character portrayed really well . Another malayalam movie which i loved recently was "Thinkalazhcha Nishchayam" Especially climax scene . Parents should not force their children to get married to  their choice and should respect the opinion of the individual 

The Great Indian Kitchen

This movie speaks about the condition of women in India and in some houses , it can get even worse. 

Brilliant movie. Everybody should watch it and respect woman. Respect in the sense, don't expect her to make the perfect cofee or dosa .. Respect her choices 

Few things to be done 

1. Listen to her wholeheartedly. If she is saying something, there is a point

2. Don't shout at her in front of anyone (in front of her parents or in-laws or maid)

3. Respect her choices. Don't force her to live with your parents. After marriage, everybody needs a life and respect that

4. Don't expect her to cook and if you don't help, don't complain about food either 

Clean Eating

How do we eat clean  ?? attended a webinar , some tips are

1. Consume Vegan , I'm still consuming diary but have stopped non veg completely

2.Get your sunlight

3. Do nadishodhan pranayam

Also some tips from  dietitian Rujutha s videos especially for women


- have kesar , almonds soaked in water to reduce pms symptoms

- have a banana in the evening

- have ghee in every meal