do we need love

 do we need love in life or can we stay alone , Questions keeps pondering . some messages from discussion with a friend on samantha s remarriage 

I feel ..for whatever reasons ..if it didn’t work out ..n if you find someone who is suitable…it’s okay to get committed…she was so much in love with naga Chaitanya …it was so visible ..but somehow it didn’t work out ..n she has found love again .

Question : So love is not permanent, it can change again in future, if correct condition comes or situation changes

Hmm ..I believe life is like train journey…some people have to get down in different stations ..just coz we enjoy their company ..can’t ask them to stay with us ..for whatever reasons ..they get down when destination comes ..n if you meet someone else in the journey n enjoy their company..feel nothing wrong in it ..this is my view :)

Question : I am trying to understand what is true love?

According to me …doing something for someone without any expectations..though difficult…we do something expecting they ll also do for us someday 

Question :I will circle back, what is true love? Is it always reciprocal? Can't true love be one sided without expecting love in return?

I believe love should give us joy …n sometimes one sided love doesn’t give it …we are social beings ..we need company ..touch etc etc …n for whatever reasons ..one sided love cannot give that ,..ofcourse if you are okay to be without intimacy,..it’s a choice ..may be some saints do it ,,.n if not required..it’s again a choice 

Question:So as per u we can have as a many time love as we want or can get

Ideally one is the best …if you have got the one and able to spend the rest of the life ..then nothing like that .,.but life happens ..sometimes for whatever reasons ..it doesn’t work out or the person is no more …then what next …if you find someone ..whom you feel can match some vibes or can enjoy life s journey..then nothing wrong in loving again ..sometimes even that mite not work ..so we have to keep going …ofcourse there will be pain ..but that’s part of life ..better than staying alone throughout your life ..