Saturday, December 20, 2014

It is easier said than done

One of my friend s whatsapp Status  is " It is easier said than done " . It is kind off true . Still a beautiful article on heart break by one of my favorite writers Vinita Dawra Nangia . Link to the post mentioned below .

http://blogs.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/O-zone/to-heal-a-broken-heart/


In radio  , I was listening to a program where they were telling about EX BOX . I repeat ex box not  the game . Is it good to have a box with old memories , snaps etc . I personally think its a bad Idea .Its better to delete everything and Move on . Start fresh focusing on the present rather than hanging on to the past.


Some of the lines from the post

"Well, to begin with, it is important to understand that the heart never gets broken; it may get chipped, but most often the chip you are dealing with is on your shoulder"


"The secret then to moving on is to focus on what was always wrong with the relationship, rather than what was good about it. It was bad for you, so it broke; relationships that are good for us seldom break in this manner."

The rest of the tricks to moving on are known to all :
 immerse yourself in work and hobbies; 

hang out with friends;

count your blessings;

list the things and people important to your well-being; 

boost your morale, 

and re-energise yourself by looking your best, 

walking your tallest and acting your most confident.

"Forgive the one who betrayed you, but do not forget the betrayal. Give up on the relationship ­ but never give up on love."

1 comment:

  1. Good one, I too happened to hear that ex box related program, felt like this varies from people to people,, and I feel it is not that easy to leave the past behind you n move on.. :-/

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