We talk ...we talk and we talk . And 99% of our problems and fights are because we talk a lot . Probably I have told it many times in my blog , but the fact is we talk nonsense most of the times . Either about the past or worrying about the future , both of which we don't have much control . Lets today focus just in the present and give our 100% in whatever we do . Can we do that one day ???? and Just see how it feels .
Do we filter garbage in our dustbins . This is yesterday s garbage and this is day before yesterday . But we do this everyday . We keep on brooding about the past
Amazing Wisdom which has been posted below :)
"Compassion should always be accompanied with wisdom. Wisdom is knowing whom to give, where to give, what to give, how to give "-Sri Sri
Do we filter garbage in our dustbins . This is yesterday s garbage and this is day before yesterday . But we do this everyday . We keep on brooding about the past
Amazing Wisdom which has been posted below :)
Dear Gurudev, I find that very often people take advantage of me. For a while it seems okay, but then it makes me angry that they are just walking all over me. Where do I draw the line? If I resist I often feel guilty that I’m being selfish. How can I differentiate between self respect and ego?
Sri Sri Ravi Shankar:
Now you are mixing up too many things up.
First of all, you should know when a person is taking advantage of you and when you have to be compassionate. This is like asking me how to balance a bicycle. Just balance! I can’t say if you fall to the right, push over to the left! No, balance like how you would ride a bicycle.
First of all, you should know when a person is taking advantage of you and when you have to be compassionate. This is like asking me how to balance a bicycle. Just balance! I can’t say if you fall to the right, push over to the left! No, balance like how you would ride a bicycle.
If people are taking advantage of you, put your foot down and say no more. Where you need to help, there you help them. It’s not self respect issues all the time, but you should not be vulnerable to people taking advantage of you as well.
If someone is in need of help it’s okay to help, but someone is unduly asking help from you all the time then you should say 'No, it won’t work'. Our compassion should always be accompanied by wisdom.
If someone is in need of help it’s okay to help, but someone is unduly asking help from you all the time then you should say 'No, it won’t work'. Our compassion should always be accompanied by wisdom.
"Compassion should always be accompanied with wisdom. Wisdom is knowing whom to give, where to give, what to give, how to give "-Sri Sri
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