Forgive

 We have heard a million times to forgive  , but how can you forgive someone who has hurt you , who has betrayed you ??  Is it possible ???

   
Yes , We can forgive  .We are not forgiving for their sake . We are doing it for our own peace of mind so that we don't keep them in our mind . Its not necessary to  hang out with them but at least forgive and let it go.

  Sometimes we are too harsh on ourselves  . We don't forgive ourselves also . Lets start forgiving ourselves and then others too. 

When we know that the other person is disturbed and hurt , it becomes easier for us to forgive .This is the truth  . People who are with peace with themselves wouldn't hurt others. When a person is not mentally stable and does something , we say that  person is not normal and leave it . Similarly when someone has hurt us , we can see it in  a similar way and  it becomes much easier then .

Anyone can hold a grudge, but it takes a person with character to forgive. When you forgive, you release yourself from a painful burden. Forgiveness doesn't mean what happened was OK, and it doesn't mean that person should still be welcome in your life. It just means you have made peace with the pain, and are ready to let it go.

- Unknown