Tuesday, May 27, 2014

I choose to rather than I have to

Inspired by article by Author  Preeti Shenoy where she has written about love letters .Link is given at the end of this blog.   Relationships - Some of the most beautiful relationships are getting sour because we are always saying 'I have to be here ' and I don't have a choice  . Lets remove "I have to " word from our dictionary . Lets instead say "I chose to be in this relationship " or I choose to work here . Some of the relationships or situations  we have a choice and some of them we don't . Where we don't have a choice , lets  accept them rather than cribbing about those relationships.

 Lets focus more on positives of the person .Write down the positives of the person  and their values  and your whole perspective will change . Everyone has their weaknesses .Lets not too much focus on it . Especially in a relationship lets respect each other values . Write down each others values and discuss about it  .       


Another factor which is important is Trust . Trust is the basis of  any relationship . Today most of them are lying . When you get to know other person is lying , speak it out and discuss in a positive way  rather than keeping it inside and cheating yourself and pretending to be all okay .

Have you cheated anytime ???? This was the discussion in today s radio program and many of them confessed to have .  Cheating is not the right way .It  will  only take away your peace of mind . So think twice before you cheat . It could be any field , not just relationship .



"Do not become possessive. The purpose of a relationship is to complement each other, grow together, and achieve your common goals as a couple. At the same time, you must each maintain your individual identity as a human being."


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