Insecurity

We feel so insecure about so many things - Job , Relationships etc.  Insecurity is fear of losing and thereby it leads to unhappiness and dissatisfaction . Insecurity even causes jealousy in relationships . Due to fear of losing someone we like , we tend to feel jealous when they are happy with others .  Common ,lets grow up and not feel insecure about these small stuffs . If your partner is happy talking to someone , let them be .
Why do you have a problem about it ?Why do you feel jealous about it ?????At the end of the day , you want them to be  happy right ?

   Jealousy is such a negative feeling , you don't feel good when you are jealous . This is also caused due to excessive attachment and the best way to let go these attachments is Just imagine that relationship or that job which you are attached to is no longer with you . I know its little scary . Nothing will happen to your job or relationship , it will be with you , but just imagine . I tell you , you will feel a lot lighter and will be able to give 100% in the job or relationship .  And nothing is gonna stay with you forever . You are gonna lose everything one day .

Another best way to let go of you attachments is do lot of seva or service . Anything which you can do , do it :)