Perspective

Yesterday a colleague  of mine was telling that she wants to end her life and was asking for anti depressants  . From outside , she has a perfect life . Beautiful family and a one year old daughter , good job . She was telling that never do something unless you are ready for it . Anything for that matter , marriage or having a kid etc . Probably that s the reason for her depression . We sometimes do  things for others and repent later .

Even if you are doing anything for others , Convince yourself that their happiness means a lot to you and you are doing it . Never have the feeling that you are doing it for someone else . I told her to do art of living course  or visit a psychiatrist .It will definitely help .

Perspectives matter a lot . How we see things . Two eye drops were talking to each other . They were sharing their sorrows . One was like , I didn't get the partner of my choice , so I'm here . And another eye drop was like , I got that  person  , So I'm here . So life is not what we think . We assume certain things or people give happiness which is not true . Happiness can only be created by you . Its how we look at things .

“One person's craziness is another person's reality.” ― Tim Burton