Be yourself

Don't be a football to others opinions . This story above  illustrates it  best . We try to please and listen to  everyone even if its not good for us . There is nothing wrong in listening to others and taking their opinion , but the final judgement should be yours . Unless it is useful for you in any way and makes you feel good  take the opinion otherwise just discard .

  Don't take everybody s rubbish and be hurt . He said something or she said something, all that is nonsense . Use your common sense and distinguish between good and bad . If something doesn't seem right and you are asked to do it, don't do it unless you convince yourself its right .Don't get disturbed by what others say . 

What others think really doesn't matter . What matters at the end of the day is how you feel . After listening to everyone you are in depression , then that doesn't make sense. It could be small decisions or big life changing decisions like career or marriage .Don't just do it for someone else . Even if you are doing it , convince yourself that its for your  good then do it . Don't keep thinking what society or relatives will tell. If you are convinced and happy , that's what matters most.

 Just because someone said something you don't have to change yourself . If you think its good for you , then change not for others. We are not here to please everyone . So many of us tend to smoke and drink just because others are doing it even after knowing it its not good for you . Don't put on act for someone else .Be yourself  . If someone doesn't like you its their problem it has  nothing to do with you . You don't have to change yourself unless you feel its the right thing to do.

“The unhappiest people in this world, are those who care the most about what other people think.”

― C. JoyBell C.