Self Management

                    Our first responsibility is managing ourselves , then family and then work . If we can take care of ourselves well , everything else will fall in place  . But most of the times we tend to neglect ourselves and try to please others which leads to more confusions .So our foremost priority should be our self . We need to be happy first .

           Suppose your family member is not ill , then you need to be healthy to take care of them . Similarly you need to be happy first then  only  you   can spread happiness to others and help someone else . If you are in pain , then you wouldn't be able to see anybody else s pain .
  
      While taking any decision , we tend to be in lot of confusion . Ask yourself if the decision nourishes you , then go ahead else don't . It could be small decisions or major decisions like career , marriage etc .


               We create our own thoughts and thereby our attitude ,perception etc . We should never blame anyone for whatever happens in our life . We are solely responsible for the same .That's called Responsibility . We need to be responsible for ourselves and decisions we make . We make or break our life.